A good example of differential integration and acculturation based on the immigrant manifesting one communicative modality and worldview while their host culture manifests a different one is to be found in Anne Fadiman's ( 1997 ) book The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down about a Laotian girl who has immigrated to Merced, California and who falls ill. How her parents interpret her illness is very different from how her doctors interpret her illness.

" You don't want the doctors doing anything that'll make the other doctors go ' I have to see this !'.

You don't have any doctors on board.

`` You are hurt ''!!

`` You are very brave ''.

You know how the ranchers in the valley are.

You are both the same size.

You are welcome to Eromonga.

`` You are a big muscle-bound ape and you got this idea about setting a record.

You are forgetting your place ''.

Then, with staring eyes and lips drawn thin, Miriam said to the young woman, `` You are ugly -- uglier than you used to be, and you were always very ugly.

You are even uglier than Mr. Wright ''.

`` You are being strangled by traffic ''.

`` You are the ' Peoples' Poet ' '' was her appraisal in 1908, and she stopped teaching and writing to devote herself to the fulfillment of her husband's career.

You are still in France ''.

You may do well to take notice, that besides the title to land between the English and the Indians there, there are twelve of the English that have subscribed their names to horrible and detestable blasphemies, who are rather to be judged as blasphemous than they should delude us by winning time under pretence of arbitration ''.

`` You are looking tired and there you can rest.

Mickie had a pleasant glow as he said, `` You see, both of them, I mean the President and Jeff Lawrence, are romantics.

`` You are to be accused of Arianism to confuse the religious who remain loyal ''.

`` You are about to become a first-class surveyor '', Rector said.

You have heard him tell these young people that during his almost 50 years of service in the Congress he has seen the Kaisers and the Hitlers and the Mussolinis, the Tojos and Stalins and Khrushchevs, come and go and that we are passing on to them the freest Nation that mankind has ever known.

You may deduct these payments even though your child uses the money to purchase his own clothing or other necessities which you are normally obligated to furnish him, and even though you may be entitled to his services.

You are likely to be nearer the truth.

You may find yourself hitting bottom, literally, as you discover that water is running out even while you are putting it in.

You must know before you start what the needs and objectives of your organization are ; ;

You read various guesses on how many Americans are camping.

`` You are bound to get involved with people when you have children '', Fran had told me at our first meeting, `` so it is good to know that those with whom you get involved are not just dreary little housewives and dull husbands, but People Who Do Things ''.

`` You mean you dragged your wife all over hell's half-acre looking for work ''??

`` You all right ''??

`` You think I got you and Artie and Herr Schaffner all the way out here just for the boat ride??

Somewhere at the far end of the room a voice yelled, `` You all right, Billy ''??

For him Mercer produced the lyric to `` Out Of Breath Scared To Death Of You '', introduced in that most successful of all the Gaieties, by Sterling Holloway.

You should be prepared to cope with any pitfall such as plunges into empty pools or shallow ends and all manner of winter as well as summer lawsuits.

You can forget about screens, and leave the storm windows up all year around.

You can save all that shimming time if you set your windows in one, two, three order -- first the stud on one side, then the window, then the stud on the other side.

You will be entitled to all the advantages of a new car owner, which includes the factory guarantee and the services valid at authorized dealers throughout Europe.

`` You have it, all right.

`` You mean you're all alone, Mr. Richards ''??

You see, you got to remember, we all got schedules, like any business!!

You may say this has little pertinence, but, gentlemen, remember that all this prepared my mind, alerted my intelligence.

A visitor from a more peaceful country across the sea was taken to one of our amusement parks, and after he had seen it all, he said to a friend: `` You must be a very sad people ''.

`` You see, first of all and in a sense as the source of all other ills, the unshakeable American commitment to the principle of unconditional surrender: The tendency to view any war in which we might be involved not as a means of achieving limited objectives in the way of changes in a given status quo, but as a struggle to the death between total virtue and total evil, with the result that the war had absolutely to be fought to the complete destruction of the enemy's power, no matter what disadvantages or complications this might involve for the more distant future ''.

You had to have convictions to lie down in the road in all those clothes and appear as though you might wish to turn yourself out of your own home.

`` You are all right, my brother ''??

In chapter four of the second Inspector Hanaud novel, The House of the Arrow ( 1924 ), Hanaud declares sanctimoniously to the heroine, " You are wise, Mademoiselle … For, after all, I am Hanaud.

You are greater than them all O ( Ark of the ) Covenant, clothed with purity instead of gold!

(“ Simple ”) As the extended musical sequence ends, the lights black out except for a spotlight on Hapgood, who announces to the audience, “ You are all mad !” Seconds later, the stage lights are restored.

You ’ re sucked in all the time, and you ’ re being lied to in a very documentary-like setting.

* " You can read all the books in the library, but the cheese will still stink.